To have a thing is convenient for our life and to create high quality of life. So far, when I found a nice book at the book store I got it. But my bookshelves were filled with books. If I get a new book, I must throw away some books to keep new book. But actually it is quite difficult to throw away . Then I must get a new bookshelves and I must make a new room for that. So I gave up to get a new book I knew to have things had a down side. To get something which I want looks nice but I must think of the way to keep it. Now a days I examine my ability to keep it before I get it.

My daughter and her daughter came to my house to support cleaning of the year end. They cleaned aventlation fun. I'm very happy to get her support.

When I was young, I had few friends so to make friends I talked to strangers independently. I have many friends now so I need not to do so. But sometimes do it. The other day I talk to an old man. He was smiling and I told small talk. He was 78years old. He looked happy. While we are talking he shed tears I did not know the reason of tears. He told that. he had hard time to take a bath so far. But it became easy yesterday. The little progress is important. We should not to have too much want. I was moved by his words

Whenever it became cold, I remember porcupine distance. When it became cold animals try to come together to keep warm. But porcupine has thorns on the back. So if it comes close to other one they hurt mutualy by the thorns. So they keep safe distance. We call it a porcupine distance. When we want to keep warm and good relation with our friend, we 'd better to keep distance.

There is my acquaintance who is eager to find a friend as a candidate of fiance.
She is working in a company in Uji as a office lady now She is 29 years old.I wish she find a friend in new year.

I had many chances to talk to various kind of people and got a lot of good advice .An old ma told me that after getting old we should no have too much want. To make effort everyday is important and I should not hurry to improve. A young lady said she could not get friends as she did not trust other people. And so on. This is my turn to do something good for them.

I found there are many sophisticated people in Ochatt member. They have nice contents and they show them in their blog. I can not follow them. But I will catch up with them some day. Any way I’m very happy to stay the same environment. I intend to continue to write a blog until they prohibit me to do so. It may be strange for low brow fellow stay in the such a marvelous SNS.

A friend came to me to say the greeting of the year end.We promised to see and enjoy together in new year.

A friend of mine said she was lonely because she was 30years old and single but she hadno schedule on Christmas Eve. Generally speaking such a lady must be busy this season. I encouraged her by the saying “ Where there is a will there is a way.”

There are two class mates of my English class, They are same age 82years old. One is a man and the other is a woman. Both of them drive a car to class room. The woman give up to drive a car this year. She accepted her son’s advice. On the other hand the man had no will to give up to drive a car even his family advised him. I also suggested him for his safety. He was obstinate. Driving skill is dependent on each person.. So indiscriminately, we can not say an old driver is dangerous. But I often hear the news that an old driver has been a traffic accident. So old people should give up to drive before they cause an accident for mutual safety.