Whenever it became cold, I remember porcupine distance. When it became cold animals try to come together to keep warm. But porcupine has thorns on the back. So if it comes close to other one they hurt mutualy by the thorns. So they keep safe distance. We call it a porcupine distance. When we want to keep warm and good relation with our friend, we 'd better to keep distance.

There is my acquaintance who is eager to find a friend as a candidate of fiance.
She is working in a company in Uji as a office lady now She is 29 years old.I wish she find a friend in new year.

I had many chances to talk to various kind of people and got a lot of good advice .An old ma told me that after getting old we should no have too much want. To make effort everyday is important and I should not hurry to improve. A young lady said she could not get friends as she did not trust other people. And so on. This is my turn to do something good for them.

I found there are many sophisticated people in Ochatt member. They have nice contents and they show them in their blog. I can not follow them. But I will catch up with them some day. Any way I’m very happy to stay the same environment. I intend to continue to write a blog until they prohibit me to do so. It may be strange for low brow fellow stay in the such a marvelous SNS.

A friend came to me to say the greeting of the year end.We promised to see and enjoy together in new year.

A friend of mine said she was lonely because she was 30years old and single but she hadno schedule on Christmas Eve. Generally speaking such a lady must be busy this season. I encouraged her by the saying “ Where there is a will there is a way.”

There are two class mates of my English class, They are same age 82years old. One is a man and the other is a woman. Both of them drive a car to class room. The woman give up to drive a car this year. She accepted her son’s advice. On the other hand the man had no will to give up to drive a car even his family advised him. I also suggested him for his safety. He was obstinate. Driving skill is dependent on each person.. So indiscriminately, we can not say an old driver is dangerous. But I often hear the news that an old driver has been a traffic accident. So old people should give up to drive before they cause an accident for mutual safety.

In the Ochatt newest ranking, My diary was ranked at the first time. I was surprised to know that. The simple contents was explained by poor English.. I intend to write better diary as much as possible.

I thought I must take care of been obstinate, because generally speaking people are apt to be obstinate. Then my wife told me I became obstinate recently. I was not conscious of that. How should I do from now? It must be good listener of advices of the pople around me. Anyway I will try soon.

I asked some members in the Lingo club meeting how do they spend Christmas Eve. Some one answered A couple has some children but no one come back their house so they enjoy the day with their friend couple. The couple has no children. Other member replayed She stays at home with her husband. In these days they don’t get Christmas cake because they can not have ie a day. They have to eat it for some days I’s hardwork.